
A Neurodivergent Congregant Reflects on Prayer Space Experiences
What we think of as a need for accommodation is more like a need for community.
Jon Argaman is a writing coach who specializes in working with Jewish clergy, neurodivergent writers, perfectionists and unconventional thinkers. They were previously a writing professor at the University of Pennsylvania, whose research and teaching focused on neurodiversity, writing, and curriculum accessibility. They are a member and lay leader at Reconstructionist Kol Tzedek synagogue, and live in Philadelphia with their husband and three-year-old son, and an ever-expanding herb garden.

What we think of as a need for accommodation is more like a need for community.

In a situation that was already so broken, trying to avoid breaking something by “threading the needle” doesn’t work.

My great-grandmother tells me that things have always been bad — that things have never been “normal” or calm or safe.